Do I deserve to Succeed?
Most of us have no problem coming up with perfectly valid reasons for not taking action. Our excuses may temporarily make us feel better, yet they do not bring any value to life. Excuses do not pay the bills, they do not solve problems, and they just allow us to justify not taking action.
I want to look at a list of excuses and reasons not to take action. For every excuse, a compelling answer is offered to counteract it. The result is a list of powerful reasons for taking action now.
What would other people think?
Are you afraid of looking foolish for some reason? Why? You know what you need to do, and you’re committed to doing it. Don’t worry about looking foolish. What will really make you look foolish is if you just sit around making excuses. An honest effort is nothing to be ashamed of. What other people think is their problem, not yours. Let them think what they will. It doesn’t matter. Do what needs to be done. Get on with it.
Sure it is uncomfortable to take action. But what is so great about comfort? Are you committed to comfort or to accomplishment? A cow grazing in a pasture is comfortable. You are capable of much more. You have possibilities to be explored, and to explore them you’ll need to get your hands dirty. But a little discomfort right now is much less painful than the regret you’ll eventually feel if you don’t ever take action. Discomfort can eventually be overcome, but regret will never go away. Get up out of your comfort zone and start making a difference.
I’ll never be as good as ____.
The only person you should compare yourself against is yourself. Your obligation is to do your very best. Don’t worry about how that compares to someone else. Just do it. Everyone is unique. Everyone has their own special contribution to make. You’ll only discover yours by taking action. If you decide in advance that you’ll never be as good as so-and-so, then you forgo the opportunity to find your own unique skills. Winners refuse to even acknowledge the competition, by blazing new trails. Comparing yourself to others will only bring you down. Set off in your own unique direction. Get into action make it happen.
It’s too complicated.
Often a new task can appear complicated because you’re not familiar with it. Once you dive in, once you get a little experience, you’ll get the hang of it. Think of all the things you’ve learned in your life. You’re good at learning, and the best way to learn is to start taking action. Whatever you see as too complicated, there’s something about it that you can understand. Use that as your starting point. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. That’s how you learn. There’s no reason to be ashamed about not knowing something. Everyone had to learn it at some point in time. Now is your time to learn. Dive right in, take on the challenge, take action, learn, grow and you’ll accomplish things you never thought possible.
It will take too long.
Then you better get started as soon as possible. It will take even longer if you sit around bemoaning the fact that it will take too long. Great accomplishments take time and effort. And the most fulfilling part of any accomplishment is not in finishing it, but in doing it. The journey is the reward, so be thankful that you’ll be rewarded over a long period of time. If the end result suddenly appeared out of thin air, with no effort on your part, of what value would it be? If it will take a long time, then it will be valuable and worthwhile. So by all means get started as soon as possible. Start making it happen and enjoy the long, fulfilling journey.
No one will care whether I do it or not.
That’s not true. You will care, and you are someone. The world is not anxious to hand success to you on a silver platter. If no one cares about you, it is probably because you don’t care enough about anyone else (or yourself for that matter) to do what it takes to make a life of accomplishment for yourself. If you start taking focused, directed action toward your goals, you can be sure that people will start to take notice. The world is indeed indifferent to those who sit around and make excuses. If that’s all you do, you’re right—no one will care. But if you stand up, step forward and take action, you’ll be amazed at how many people are waiting to cheer you on. What are you waiting for? Get busy and you’ll get noticed.
I Could Never Be Successful.
Why not? What do you mean, “I could never”? Of course you could. You could indeed. If it can be done, you can do it. You’ve got to want it, of course. And if you want it enough, you’ll do it. “I could never” is usually said wistfully, meaning “I wish I could, but I can’t.” That’s preposterous. You can if you really want to. Free yourself from your own limitations. What do you want to do? What will fulfill the enormous potential of your life? Certainly not hiding behind the thoughts or Ideas that “I could never do that.” You are capable of truly extraordinary accomplishments. You can do whatever you decide you’re going to do. You can find a way. Have the courage to live your possibilities.
Sometimes you’re just so overwhelmed, you feel like throwing up your hands or crawling into a hole and curling up in the fetal position. WRONG! That’s exactly what you must not do. When you’re overwhelmed, that’s all the more reason to start taking the actions that will rectify your situation. When you’re overwhelmed is when you’re the most frustrated and the most motivated. Now is your chance to really take action with dedication and commitment. Don’t blow the opportunity. The frustration you feel is good, solid positive energy waiting to be released. If it is not released in a positive direction, there is a very big danger that it will become destructive energy. Use that frustration to your advantage. You’re overwhelmed? GREAT! Do something about it right now. Quit complaining and start taking positive action. If you’re overwhelmed it means that there are plenty of things which can be done, things which will most likely make a difference very quickly. Pick something and start doing it right now. As soon as you get busy your frustration will start pushing you forward.
I Don’t Deserve to Succeed.
You are just as good, just as worthy, just as valuable as anyone. No one can intimidate you, no matter what kind of car they drive, or what their business card says, or how big their house is, or how big their factory is. No one is better than you. You are the best there is. Inside of you is the potential to do, or be, or have anything you desire. No one has more than that. Some may have progressed farther down the path at this moment, but that doesn’t make them any better than you. If you start to take action right now, you will be working your way down that same path. No matter what anyone says, or does, no matter what your situation—personal, financial, social or otherwise—you can choose to live your life in your own way. And there is no greater success than that. But you must be the one to achieve your success. Though no one can hold you back if you’re determined enough, by the same token no one can do it for you. You’ve got to step up to the challenge, believe in yourself, and do what it takes. Right now is a great time to start. You deserve the best that life has to offer. Do whatever needs to be done to make it happen.
Success begins with believing in yourself…
We must first define what success means to us, and that means getting CLEAR about what you want, writing it down, and thinking BIG!
Success Begins with Believing. If you are going to be successful in spite of a recession and create the life of your dreams, you have to believe that you are capable of making it happen. You have to believe you have the right stuff, that you are able to pull it off.
You have to believe in yourself. Whether you call it self-esteem, self-confidence, or self-assurance, it is a deep-seeded belief that you have what it takes – the abilities, inner resources, talents, and skills to create your desired results.
Ultimately, you must learn to control your self-talk, eliminate any negative and limiting beliefs, and maintain a constant state of positive expectations.
Control Your Self-Talk…
Researchers have found that the average person thinks as many as 50,000 thoughts a day. Sadly, many of those thoughts are negative — I’m not management material… I’ll never lose weight… It doesn’t matter what I do, nothing ever works out for me.
This is what psychologists call victim language. Victim language actually keeps you in a victim state of mind. It is a form of self-hypnosis that lulls you into a belief that you are unlovable and incompetent.
In order to get what you want from life, you need to give up this victim language and start talking to yourself like a winner – I can do it… I know there is a solution… I am smart enough and strong enough to figure this out… a choice I’ve made is to eat foods that help me maintain my perfect body weight.
You are always programming your subconscious mind; your subconscious mind is like the crew of a ship. You are its captain. It is your job to give the crew orders. And when you do this, the crew takes everything you say literally. The crew (your subconscious) has no sense of humor. It just blindly follows orders. When you say, “Everything I eat goes straight to my hips,” the crew hears that as an order: Take everything she eats, turn it into fat and put it on her hips!
On the other hand, if you say, “Everything I eat helps me maintain my perfect body weight,” the crew will begin to make that into reality by helping you make better food choices, exercise, and maintain the right metabolism rate for your body.
This power of your subconscious mind is the reason you must become very vigilant and pay careful attention to your spoken and internal statements. Unfortunately, most people don’t realize they are committing negative self-talk, which is why it is a really good practice to enlist another person – possible your success partner – in monitoring each other’s speaking. You can have your support person help you interrupt each other when you use victim language.
Use Affirmations to Build Self-Confidence
One of the most powerful tools for building self-worth and self-confidence is the repetition of positive thoughts and statements until they become a natural part of the way you think.
These “affirmations” act to crowd out and replace the negative orders you have been sending your crew (your subconscious mind) all these years. I suggest that you create a list of 10 to 20 statements that affirm your belief in your worthiness and your ability to create the life of your dreams.
Of course, what to believe is up to you, but here are some examples of affirmations that have worked for others in the past:
- I am worthy of love, joy and success.
- I am smart and make wise choices.
- I am loveable and capable.
- I create anything I want.
- I am able to solve any problem that comes my way.
- I can handle anything that life hands me.
- I have all the energy I need to do everything I want to do.
- I am attracting all the right people into my life.
Believing in yourself is an Attitude!
Believing in yourself is a choice. It’s an attitude you develop over time. It’s now your responsibility to take charge of your own self-concept and your beliefs. It might help you to know that the latest brain research now indicates, with enough positive self-talk and positive visualization combined with the proper training, coaching, and practice, anyone can learn to do almost anything.
You must choose to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to – anything at all – because, in fact, you can! The Bible says that you are how you think.
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Master ANY Skill.
Anyone can master a skill! Regardless of your background, level of education or even how “smart” you may think you are – or aren’t. If it worked for me, it can definitely work for you. And you can learn exactly how to do what we did to become so successful…
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Whether you’re having a fantastic day or a horrible day, having a VISION of how things should be for tomorrow is a powerful thing given to each of us. I cannot tell you the importance of having the ability to see how you can make decisions today that will change your life forever. Imagine the importance and how life changing it would be for you to have sufficiency and not to half to worry about how you will pay your bills or have enough to buy the required groceries.
The Budget a necessary Control process?
Budgeting is not a prison! It’s NOT about what you can and can’t do. Actually, the purpose of a budget is to help you manage your money according to YOUR priorities and income, so you can have the future YOU want. “Are you’re ready to claim that kind lifestyle and future for yourself?”
Now it is easier then ever before.
I’m sure everything in your life is going just great – business is booming, you’re making sales left and right, you’ve totally killed your debt, you’ve got money in the bank, your relationships are better than ever, Right?
But just in case it isn’t, I’m goanna stick my neck out and tell you about a way you can experience major breakthrough today. Like I said, I’m sure everything in your life has never been better… but you and I both know people who face hardcore struggles right now, and I want to do everything I can to help. That’s why we’re here offering you this opportunity to take action and see for yourself the process we have available to you and anyone you may be able to assist in doing the same, wanting to improve their lifestyle with our resources. We want to see you experience massive breakthrough Success!
To You & Your Success
Making a Decision to Stay at Home
Entrepreneurship is a very viable option for a stay at home mom today. No matter what business stay at home moms operate out of their home, they can reap the benefits of increased income-earning potential, convenience, and flexibility. Luckily, entrepreneur opportunities are just around the corner for the stay at home mom. Jobs can pay the bills but your own business can change your life – providing you the opportunity to earn an income and still care for your family at home. Stay at home moms have as much potential to become successful entrepreneurs as anybody else. We can help you realize that potential.
Missing Your Professional Life
Many people make the choice to stay at home with their kids. This is obviously a wonderful opportunity that so many of us would love to have. But there’s no denying that leaving a job to be at home means a big change in lifestyle. You long for that self-fulfillment that came with a job well done. You miss working side by side with others in your field; people with whom you shared a professional camaraderie. You feel the loss of a daily challenge and you may certainly miss the financial benefits that your paycheck provided your family – along with the ability to put money away for your retirement. You were willing to make financial sacrifices in order to stay home but still, it would be wonderful to be able to be at home with your kids and still contribute to the household financially. When you’re a stay at home mom, jobs that fit your lifestyle seem few and far between.
In an effort to find the balance we all seek between family and finances millions of people set out to find legitimate work at home opportunities. Such a work situation used to be a rarity but now, with technology on our side and the Internet such a constant and powerful force in our life, we have access to more opportunities than ever. Business has been forever changed by the World Wide Web – giving millions of people the chance to explore home-based entrepreneurship and find that balance we all seek so earnestly. In fact, recent estimates report that over one-third of households in which there are children age 18 and younger have at least one parent who operates an at-home businessOpportunities are out there for the stay at home mom. Jobs that will change the way you approach life.
All it takes to get started working from home is a willingness to be flexible and learn something new, the desire to capture the freedom that comes from working for yourself, and the dedication to succeed. It can all be yours – the opportunity to stay at home, have flexibility, and still be a self-accomplished professional who is able to contribute financially.
But first you have to find genuine work at home opportunities. We’ll provide you with the tools you need to get started and help you find the perfect stay at home mom jobs!
Part of what you lose when you leave a traditional job is the professional companionship of people who share a common goal. But when you work at home you will be surprised by the professional community that awaits you; a community that shares your flexibility and your journey of applying your skills in a non-traditional work environment. Like you, they enjoy that short commute to their home computer, their ability to work and still enjoy their children, take care of their home, and spend time with their family.
These stay at home mom jobs offer freedom from long and expensive commutes to the corporate world where the hours are extensive and time away from the family is significant. Instead, work at home jobs allow parents to find balance in their lives – giving of themselves professionally, financially, and personally. What could be better?